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4 Life Lessons I’ve Learned from 20-somethings

4 Life Lessons I’ve Learned from 20-somethings

I'm calling a time-out from the all the talk about how worthless guys under 30 are and focus on the stuff I'm learning from them.: 1. There are some things that I need to speak up about. Protest is a good thing. The older I…

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You Always Get Paid For The Work You Put In

You Always Get Paid For The Work You Put In

Nobody argues when you say “what goes up, must come down”. Gravity is gravity. It doesn’t have to be defended or proven. It just is. There’s another law that’s just as true but too many young guys don’t believe it: You always get paid for…

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Take Care of YOUR Stuff

Take Care of YOUR Stuff

Every day there seems to be another article, blog post, or tv news story about the decline of men in America. There’s no doubt the stats are pretty grim and alarming but the good news is the situation is not hopeless. There are entire websites…

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What is PIVOT?

What is PIVOT?

I’ve written a character development program called PIVOT. I’ve designed it to be used by college football teams. Below is the letter I’m sending out to teams. If you are involved with a college team or know someone who is, please check it out and…

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5 Things I Wish I Had Done In My 20′s and 1 I’m Glad I Did

5 Things I Wish I Had Done In My 20′s and 1 I’m Glad I Did

Getting old sucks. I mean royally sucks. Getting out of bed at 5 am to run or work out seems to take longer every morning because I have to work through aches and pains that didn’t use to be there. But as I approach 50,…

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Why Should I Grow Up?

Why Should I Grow Up?

That’s a fair question for a lot of 20-something guys to ask, especially when you understand: They make enough money that if they share a house with 3 other dudes, they are left with enough disposable income to never have to get their kitchens dirty….

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Failing Isn’t Hard, It Just Takes Practice

Failing Isn’t Hard, It Just Takes Practice

Failing really isn’t hard. In fact, it’s pretty easy if you know what you’re doing. I want to make it so simple any guy can do it with 5 steps that will guarantee you’ll fail at pretty much anything you try. NUMBER FIVE-Don’t Have a…

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The Anti-Panic Question

The Anti-Panic Question

I hate over-the-top headlines. Surf The Drudge Report or The Huffington Post and you’ll see them. The government is out to get you. If you vote for ______, America is doomed. Drives me nuts. The bad thing is this type of thinking has permeated all…

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Let it Go

Let it Go

I ran across this on Twitter recently: Laugh when you can, apologize when you should, and let go of what you can’t control It sounded pretty clever but the more I thought about it, the more I realized it was the perfect way to avoid…

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3 Simple Secrets to Get and Keep a Job

3 Simple Secrets to Get and Keep a Job

Based on what I read and hear, nobody can find a job. The reason so many people are on unemployment is there just aren’t any jobs to be had. But my experience and observation is that’s a load of crap. I do not know a…

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